The Breakup

Around this time every year, we hear the jokes about what we should be leaving in the past year as we move on to the next one. Sometimes these are beauty trends, or slang terms, or even people.  And while we often make fun of leaving these things behind, sometimes they symbolize really painful experiences…

Final thoughts for 22

My 22nd year began by stepping completely outside of my comfort zone. On a rainy Saturday, I trudged through a ropes course and ended with ziplining, which I was actually dreading. I hated to try things I didn’t know, or didn’t know if I would be able to do. I didn’t like for people to…

When you hate, you give up

“To hate is an easy lazy thing but to love, takes strength everyone has but not all are willing to practice.”-Rupi Kaur   Let’s think about hate and the sense it makes. Here is the process: We argue We disagree We don’t understand So we resort to hate   I believe that hate is fueled…

8.9.17

I am learning you Which means I’m learning to Not ask how to learn about you Or how you can teach me I just do it

You don’t need somebody to want you

I’m not sure if this is a girl thing, or an INFJ type thing, or just a human thing, but I’ve realized now more than ever that I have a very strong internal desire to be wanted. Needing to feel wanted can be defined in different ways and hold many connotations. Some people feel a need…